Learn learn learn and keep learning!!!

Life is so short that doing everything we want to do is highly impossible and again we got to prioritize among the wanted to do list...
There is no age bar to learn new things by ourselves or from others and i feel learning from others experience can be done at ease rather than waiting for our turn to experience few things. One can learn many things infact from each and every moment only when the individual is observing the happenings in and around him.
I'm blessed to be born in such a good family with all the facilities and exposure to learn and at the same time there are people who might be having less facilities but they struggle hard and overcome it to be successful because they will VALUE things which definitely very important in all our lives.

I'm thankful to all those individuals who are part of this journey of my life...I have been learning many things out of my interest and from others through their experiences and i value those experiences a lot.
Learning is a never ending process and at the same time we should never stop learning..

Whatever happens probably happens for good!!!

We human beings keep cribbing and blaming God for whatever is happening in our lives.. But the thing is God has gifted us our lives and from then on everything is in our own hands what all we do.. I definitely believe god is there with us each and every moment.

There are times wherein we might feel things are not happening the way we want..ha ha!! infact most of times we feel the same.. But we all will be so busy in cribbing for what has happened we forget to notice things and improve ourselves.. I am just trying to say that though things might not happen according to our wishes all the time but definitely there will a be learning behind what has actually happened.. I always console myself telling God has helped me to learn something new which can be a good thing to improve myself or a bad thing to rectify things within my life..

Many a times i question God for whatever is happening in my life but at the end every damn thing is in my own hands..i should work hard if i want something and i should take decisions on what to do and what not to do..Ultimately we blame God irrespective of whether we believe in God or not, but actual fact is how we manage and what we do will only lead us to end results...

So..for everything there will be a right time for which we all need to have patience and should never loose hope...We should take things in a positive note and move on thinking whatever happens probably happens for good!!!

Laughter is the best medicine to stay happy!!! :)

Making others laugh is actually not an easy task.. Its so important to be so spontaneous every second to bring in some humour..I try hard to bring in smiles on others face and finally somehow i manage to accomplish it ;-)

Everybody are so busy in their lives that we actually forget to smile or laugh enjoy the moments...All my family members are so busy that we hardly even talk with each other and i guess its the same with each one of us..We are always behind money...at times i feel so lonely wont know with whom to talk and share how i'm feeling...Happens...!! I'm not gonna preach about anything in this blog..

Family get together will always be fun..In order to actually continue the bonding this has to take place..Teasing, playing games, chit chats gossips ohh what not..awesome !! I always give importance to such small moments...infact from before i consider happiness lies not only within us but always spreading it across..

My sister who is a Doctor now was always busy in her studies and she never had time to enjoy such small cute moments...I feel great when she laughs at my stupid jokes and i enjoy doing it bcoz she's always busy studying as always like before but now for her Masters...I miss my elder sister we used to have good time commenting cracking stupid jokes and much more...

Anyways i enjoyed my day by making others laugh and i wish that i get more such opportunities to bring a smile on others face :-)

Time Changes...So do people!!!

2009 This was the year i actually wrote my first and last blog...

Those days i was so excited to write and somehow wrote few blogs...Today all of a sudden i got a mail that new comment on my blogs,,,i was like ohh woww...!! Infact honestly i had even forgotten i had written sumthing like this few years back...I m so thankful to Steven Dsouza who commented on it...I felt really nice seeing it...

I'm not sure how exactly a blog has to be written...But i feel this is a medium to express your views,opinions,thoughts and many other things... Its so weird...over a period of time we actually tend to forget how and what all we used to do before..In life priorities might remain the same from long time but i feel we as individuals should always be the same... But ya at the same time we shouldnt force ourselves to do things as before... Its been almost 3 yrs i wrote my last blog and personally i feel loads of changes in the way i think or look at things compared to before..I have no clue what im trying to tell...

I would again like to thank Steven... We shld retain few of our habits i feel irrespective of whatever might happen in life..I know a person who actually never complains in life and always has a smiling face what so ever might happen... I appreciate him for how he is...I crib for each and everything happening each and every moment.. How can a person stay happy all the time with whatever he has? So difficult..!! We human beings always greedy ask for more... Just hoping i ll improve myself..Oh God let each and every human being including me stay happy always...!!

Sihi muthu sihi muthu innondu...Kennege galakke matondu Kanda koduveya....

Those were the days…


Those Naughty eyes….

That innocent sleep….

That beautiful smile…

Those careless yawns…


That curious look…


Those mischievous eyes…


Those crazy games…


The chubby cheeks…

You wanted to know it all…

Those little things that kept you busy…

And the li'l things that gave you happiness…

Those were the days…
Of innocence
Of joy
Of excitement
Of fun

"Which make us want to become a child again…"

Is'nt true..?? It's factual dat each one of us miss those days... sumtimes we feel like going back to those days where der was full of masti, innocence, excitement bla bla bla...

My Grandpa always recounts a small incident.. When i was in kinder garden i had got fever at dat time n i was admitted in hospital... He had come to hospital to see me at dat time i was wit my dad's mother .. as soon as i saw my Grandpa i rushed towards him n hugged him itseems.. :) i feel very gud wenever he tells me abt it ... :) ... My Grandpa calls me as "Dodd Nagu".. According to him i ll be always smiling itseems.. n its strange dat he ll make out if I'm upset for something... He ll come to kno abt it through phone itself.. Gr8 na??

Hmmm elders usually say dat we can see God in children n its very true... They wont kno wats right n wats wrong.. but dey ll do watever dey feel like doing without thinking twice n dats wat i like in dem... A child ll thouroughly enjoy its life..

Chetu my neighbour a small gal comes to our house everyday to play with us.. The very 1st day wen she entered our house she was so silent, so quiet n she didnt even utter a word n now its almost a year since she has started coming to our house n guess wat now none of us can catch her.. she has become so close to all of us dat if she won come even on one day we all of us feel like something is missing...

Chetu's exam are going on now.. so she wanted to kno sumthing for dat she had come to our house early in d morning...i called her 'Baa illi' anta... she was like 'Wat ..wat is dis early in d morning huh'?? ha ha ha..very sweet... she helped my mom in packing few things for marriage stuffs.. My mom asked her to come other day so dat v can finish dat packing.. she was going home n near d gate she asked me sweetly 'Nale wat time barli?? 5 or 6 .. 5 ok na?? bega ne bartini ok na??' u shld hav seen her expression cho chweet :)

Hmmm now I'm waiting for my akka's marriage as I want someone to call me Chitti or Chickamma .... :)

NoOr OnDu nEnaPu YeDeyaLa DinDa.... HaaDagi bAnthU ANanDaDindA...YeNdeNdu IrAli ee DivYa BaNdHa...!!!!!

I'm writing dis blog for my elder sis Rekha( Akka) .. She is getting married in d month of May dis year.. I want to share all dos moments wer v all 3 (Me, Rekha akka n Divvi) hav njoyed, cried, laughed,danced n many more... Rekha is my elder sis n i hav one more sis who is 2 yrs elder to me n dats Divvi...

I dunno from wer i shld start... i fight wit akka a lot but dat ll be jus thru eye contact.. wenever d cold war ll b going on btw us v won talk much n its my akka who cum foward to talk to me... even though its my mistake she ll cum n talk to me.. dats really swt... Divvi ll always say me dat 'Akka really loves U.. don hurt her by doing des things'..her words make me realise my mistake.. but within few moments v ll be normal.. :)


Akka cares so much abt both of us n splly me.. she sees to dat i shld be happy, no matter watever happens.. :) Though I'm not a perfect sister to her, but I'm thankful to god for the one I've got.. :) .. Actually she's not very expressive dats d major problem... if i feel like missing her I'll call her or msg her dat I'm missing her.. Gud na??? It ll really gud if everyone in dis world is expressive :)

Once i went to Forum wit Divvi.. I asked her to buy chocolates for me in Sweet world but she refused to buy der but if its in case of akka, she wuld hav went der d very nxt moment to buy chocos for me.. :) its not dat Divvi won buy nything for me..even she's very swt but as dis blog is all abt my akka i hav to write gud things abt her na?? ha ha ha ;) ...for dat moment i really missed akka.. many times i hav called her n cried like nything.. i dunno whether akka remember's dat or not...

I went to Jaane tu.. Ya jaane na movie wit my frnd.. In dat movie Aditi's bro role is jus too gud.. wen i was watching d scene wer Aditi's bro ll ask her abt his frnds names n all and she ll be like i dunno.. all dos scenes r my fav scenes in d whole movie.. as my frnd was sitting nxt to me i was'nt able to cry.. but as soon as i came out of theatre i called akka n bursted into tears.. i didnt tell her d reason jus told her thanks for being my sis.. recently wen d movie was coming on TV, i told her abt watever i felt... I'm damn sure dat i'll miss akka like hell after she goes to London after marriage..n she has asked me to cum down to London for 1 month after she gets married.. Is'nt it swt??



My akka ll do hell lot of naughty things n if i join her der ll b no one to stop us.. :)
My mom usually says dat wen i was born akka was spending gud time wit me n offcousre wit Divvi too..My akka used to like me lott itseems n offcousre even now she loves me lottt... i dunno how time has passed so soon dat she ll be no more wit us.. :( .. To be honest as of now she's wit us, so I'm not worried abt her much.. but wen she moves to her house leaving us I dunno how I'll manage n ll definitely miss her more.. its a part of life n which every gal has to face in life..

Its really nice to be d youngest daughter at home... As my akka's marriage is really very near shopping is going.. so wen v went out for shopping though i took many dresses dat day, i liked one of d dress which was displayed.. i liked it n i was behaving like a small kid dat i want it now... n Divvi was wit me dat time she literally agreed dat she ll tell dad but she didnt... My dad saw me behaving like a small kid n asked me if u want den ll go n buy it... i was so happy dat moment den all of a sudden Divvi told ' No need daddy... ninu avalna ubbsbeda' .. i got so angry i told her ' Aithu hogele naan mummy ge heltini kodsokke' anta... as soon as v reached car i told my mum dat i liked a dress n i want it.. She told u shld hav bought it.. :) .. i looked at Divvi she gave a cute expression 'Sari hoitu amma maglu sariyagi iddare' ;) ... ders lots of moments like dis.. :)


We all 3 of us njoy like nything... if v hav time den definitely v ll discuss n chat al kinda stuffs.. it may be realted to ny topic... Akka has never scolded me for nything if i tell her abt sum boy or abt me having crush on sum boy.. she ll just say not to cross the limits n she ll give me sum tips too.. ;) ha ha ha... In my PU days bocz of my silly mistake it landed into funny thing (talking abt my crush).. I really miss dos days.. :(

She always encourages me to try new things n do good things.. :)
Even at d shopping time for marriage though my parents bought wat all i wanted, but i was not satisfied n my akka who's very sweet told me n explained me everything dat wat I was doing was wrong... What all she told me was very true.. I'm really lucky for everything.. Thanks a lot akka n I promise u dat it wont happen again from my side.. :)

Whenever v 3 of us or me n akka go out ders no one to stop us eating.. ;)
Divvi ll be teasing dat v both r grt Bhakasuris ;) ha ha ha... V definitely won miss ny chance wen it cums to eating sumthing... as akka's marriage is near i hav started dieting n god only knows whether I'm dieting or not.. ;) so akka told 'Rashmi naan iro varege chennagi thinli bidi n naan hodmele avalu automatic agi thinnodu kammi madtale... yaakandre avalige nan bittu irokke agolla' anta.. n akka its very true..I think only to sum extent.. ;) ha ha ha..

There's lots many things to write abt 3 of us.. n offcousre abt Akka.. let me not dump all d things in only one post.. Wait for 2nd part...!!!!

Mother !!!!!!

After writing my 2nd blog many ppl got bugged and many laughed at me writing it... its really bad... :(
So this time let me write sumthing very serious... One shld not be very serious in life.. wen ders a need for it, let us be serious but not all the time...

This time i'm writing abt a 'Mother'....

One Should respect woman and understand the importance of a woman in this world...
A woman potrays multiple roles of a Mother,Sister,Wife,Friend and many others....

"Next to the wound, what women make best is the Bandage"

- Jules Barbey

A mother plays an important role in each one's life... She's the one who compromises and sacrifices so much in all issues... The value of a person can only be known after loosing that person.. She's the one who manages and looks after her family inspite of all the barriers in the journey of life....




"A Mother's love is patient and forgiving when all others are forsaking, it never fails or falters, even though the heart is breaking"

- Helen rice

There's a saying "A mother understands what a child does not say " .... Its very true...
This has happened with me many times...though i wont say nything she can make it out...
My mom even now tells me an incident which took place wen i newly joined Baby nursery... and i feel i was very lucky dat my Nursery was right in front of our house... One day she came late to take me home...
ಆಗ ನಾನು ತುಂಬ ಅಳ್ತಾ ಇದ್ದೆ ... ಯಾವಾಗ ನನ್ ಅಮ್ಮ ನನ್ ಮುಂದೆ ಬಂದರೋ ನಾನು ಇನ್ನೂ ಜೋರಾಗಿ ಆಲೋಕ್ಕೆ ಶುರು ಮಾಡಿ ಅಮ್ಮ ಅಂತ ಹೋಗಿ ನನ್ ಅಮ್ಮನ ತಬ್ಕೊಂಡ ಬಿಟ್ ನನ್ತೆ...
Isnt it cute?? I love my mom a lot... but never said dat to her...

There's many incidents like the above one... I think all mothers in this world are very courageous to face all the hurdles... I m sure coz i hav seen my mom... Once it so happened dat der was a sudden distort in all our lifes n my mom didnt give even an intimation abt the happennings.. My mom is simply the Best n Great.. :)

No gift to your mother can ever EQUAL her gift to you and dats LIFE....

My parents hav given me everything... :) Wenever i ask my mom dat i want sumthing, within few days i ll get it.. :) My mom's sooo caring n very protective abt us.. i kno all mothers are like dat only... She has given us all kinda freedom... She allowed me to go to trip wit my frnds wen i finished my PU exams just coz she wanted me to be happy and enjoy my life which she didnt... My mom didnt allow my sisters but she allowed me.. :) i really dont have words to tell abt my mom...

"All that I'm or ever hope to be, I owe to my ANGEL mother"

This is actually said by Abraham Lincoln.... But even i would like to say the same thing to my angel mother... :) Being a mother is really a difficult task in this whole world...

"Being a full time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... Since the payment is pure LOVE"

I'm really lucky to hav the best and sweeeetttttttt Mother in this whole world... :)
Thanks a lot amma... :)